Frett not guys,(and gals)
I think I have got a solution coming along for us. I just outsourced the custom product builder project to a developer in India. We have used him before in our business and hes very brilliant.

He said it will be like 2 weeks, but he will have exactly what I want built..
That being said.. What I want, is also what is going to work best for you..
So I need two things..
1. someone volunteer to maintain a "request log" of what the desired extra features would be. So that I know what is priority for him to focus on.
2. If any of you guys have a specific need, and want it incorporated in the solution, (or if your feeling generous) than please let me know if you can help cover the costs for this guy. I will be happy to give you his personal information and all so there is no possibility of mistrust.
Right now , he is developing the attributes with a computer reseller in mind, ( as I am) however I don't want his work to limit your ability to use this compnent to fit your specific product either.. So
dammit , speak up now while we have a chance to solve a problem we all have, or dont bitch about VM again .. ( I am def guilty on that one ;-) )
Much love to the community of brilliant minds that I have met here.