I agree with most of you, this is probably the biggest error in Virtuemart, to the point of leaving VM as useless for many companies.
I'm already in contact with one of the guys you mentioned to see how he can solve this, but this should be implemented in VM years ago.
Many customers like you say want to see the prices with tax and shipping cost included before the checkout, and ill say even more, the checkout method of choosing shipping method is not even required in many cases and annoying for customers.
I work for a food companie, all our competitors in their websites put their prices with tax + shipping cost included, whats the use for us if we cant do that?
Let's hope developers think of it for future versions.
3 years later theres still no way to implement this
