bytelord, I realize that the secure site is trying to load insecure files. This is precisely the problem I'm trying to figure out. When SEF is turned on, one of the first lines of code is base href=http:// - it is putting the base href as the non-secure site. When I turn off SEF it doesn't have that line of code for base href so everything then loads fine and the state dropdown even works fine. All issues go away. But, I need to use SEF.
Pro, I'm using the built in Joomla SEF. If there is another extension that will help all of these conflicts I'd be happy to try it, but I've seen all over these forums that people have problems with others as well.
Not sure what you mean by the products not having the suffix.
I have autopopulated the country in the database directly (as the default). I have verified that this is not causing any conflict issues related to the state dropdown.